Love

Sorry for the long hiatus.... But then, my dear helped me fill up some gaps.... Oh well, lotsa gatherings, convocation, a wedding, and nice photos of course.... But seriously, I am too busy to upload.... I will do for the convocation ones soon k? So sorry for the people waiting for my brother's zai photography.

But even though I am busy, I am happy. It might not look enough from the facade sometimes, I am actually really contented. Yes, the neverending work has weighed down on my mind, jarring my senses even, but whenever I see her, the grin just comes naturally from within out, and contentment and serenity ensue. I wonder why... *grinz* :P

Have you watched "Sex and the City"? Yes, it's a chick flick. But something common about those very nice US shows, is the witty dialogues; they either leave you introspective or just jokingly intellectual. I always liked what Charlotte said in the movie, when they were asked if they were happy. She said something akin to:"Well, I am happy everyday. Not whole day everyday, but everyday."

Be contented with what you have, who you are. And I think that is food for thought today.

Ripped something off Jinfu's blog, which he got it from somewhere else. Though it's probably the 1001th definition of love, it's probably another something to chew over, while everyone starts finding the meaning of this elusive 4-letter word out there.

What does love mean?

If you love someone because you think he or she is really gorgeous,
Then its not love..
Its' "INFATUATION"

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think you shouldn't,
Then its not love..
Its' "COMPROMISE"

If you love someone because you can't live without his touch,
Then its not love..
Its' "LUST"

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him,
Then its not love..
Its' "INFERIORITY COMPLEX"

If you love someone because you can't leave him thinking that it would hurt his feeling,
Then its not love..
Its' "CHARITY"

If you love someone because you share everything with him,
Then its not love..
Its' "FRIENDSHIP"


But if you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
And you cry for him,
That's "LOVE"

If you get attracted by other people but stay with him without any regrets,
That's "LOVE"

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to,
That's "LOVE"

Something I read off the Net somewhere N years ago, something I find very meaningful:

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

与其只一味着寻找那个完美的情人，还不如珍惜眼前人。

〉〉报章读后感：希望我们能彼此互相‘接纳’对方，而不是刻意容忍或姑息，因为这样总有一天会累积成灾。好比你姐说的：互相学习，辅助，成长。

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Ok no ink le... sleep...