I need to put up my hand - ask MORE questions or make MORE comments on the spot.
It's this hardwired mechanism in the twenty years of my SG education that is costing me dearly: fear of failing, fear of asking questions that make you seem stupid, basically fear of being "wrong".
But what's wrong with being "wrong"? It just shows that you are thinking... even though it might be in the wrong direction.
Ok, I am going to start kicking the habit. It's part of my own resolution and definitely part of my own training.
I would rather look stupid now, than later. Hack. It doesn't actually matter, does it?